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#MindfulLiving: A HOPE-Centred 2017

Having just said Goodbye to 2016 and now looking forward to a whole new landscape of possibilities for 2017, we have the exciting, yet often problematic opportunity to make a New Year’s Resolution. Imagine what it might be like to name an intention for your life that you can joyfully embrace and also actually successfully achieve.

While it may sound a bit contrary to popular belief, as a registered therapist, I am opposed to goal-setting in general. Instead, I have found much better results when the focus for change is on intentions and aspirations.

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The Grand Canyon Adventure | Alex Nicassio

Goals set us up for expectations and failure, while aspirations and intentions set us up for a positive and life-giving trajectory and general map for opportunity-seeking and optimal decision-making.

In that spirit, I would like to propose to you an alternative way that you can make the most of 2017. While the specifics of where you go with this four-pronged HOPE-Centred Transformation Model will be unique to you and your own experiences and longings, I welcome you to use the following questions to help guide you in your intentional journey towards greater health and wellness.

Health: If there is one new habit I would like to add to my life that I think would support my vision of healthier living, what would it be?

From a brain perspective, as I first learned in 2005 from visionaries Dr. Ernest Rossi and Dr. Daniel Siegel at an Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference about the paradigm-shifting discoveries about neurogenesis, it takes about one month to establish a new habit and about three to four months to solidify it in such a way that it becomes a more automatic part of your life.

It is important to note that the smaller and more achievable you can make an aspiration, the more likely you are to succeed, which will in turn make you feel better about yourself and inspire you to perhaps invite yourself to add another new habit in a few months as well.

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A bounty of luscious tomatoes | Theresa Nicassio

Whether you long to start to enjoy honouring your body and/or mind with healthier food, more movement, more rest, or even more quality time with loved ones, the decision to create a small positive shift in any of these areas will ultimately offer more gifts of well-being than you might have anticipated.

Optimism: When I notice that my thoughts about difficult situations become pessimistic, how can I remind myself to pause and breathe, in order to create a space between my negative thoughts for a positive perspective of the situation to at least be momentarily entertained?

The implications of this aspiration are no small matter, especially since we know from the research the significant impact our thoughts can have on our health and wellness.

“Pessimism has been linked with depression, stress, and anxiety (Kamen & Seligman, 1987), whereas optimism has been shown to serve as a protective factor against depression, as well as a number of serious medical problems, including coronary heart disease (Tindle et al. , 2009).”  ~ ThePursuitofHappiness.org

Possibility Thinking: How might I encourage myself to think beyond the box and be open to possibilities that might even feel a bit out of my comfort zone?

The transformative power of possibility thinking is not to be underestimated. By simply choosing to realize that there may be more to a situation than we know to be true, we open our minds and our lives to changes that we cannot even begin to predict. During our family trip to The Grand Canyon this winter holiday brought this reality home to me in a whole new way.

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The joy of Angeline | Theresa Nicassio

Enthusiasm: How might I allow myself the pleasure of childlike wonder and excitement about the simple gifts life has to offer?

Think about how a child responds when they see untouched snow that they can play with, delight in, and perhaps even create and build a snowman with. Imagine what it might be like to approach your daily life and the moments you encounter in a similar way. I have found that choosing to invite more of this way of being in the world can have surprisingly profound implications. Not only does enthusiasm impact your own mental outlook, but it also has an ‘infectious’ quality that surprisingly changes the way others in the world respond to you as well.

I hope you choose one or more of these HOPE-Centred intentions to increase your odds of positively influencing the evolution of your life in 2017.

 

Ask Theresa Nicassio PhD questions about health, psychology, life, food, parenting, wellness and whatever else you need advice on, by emailing her at theresa@theresanicassio.com, with BECAUSE YOU ASKED in the subject heading. Feel free to sign your submission with a pseudonym of your choice (e.g. “Sleepless in Seattle”).

 

 

 

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